Skip to Content

Guilt-Free Wanting: How to Get Whatever You Want

Do you ever wish you could just have what you want right now with no guilt free wanting?

Guilt free wanting is not easy without thinking about meeting your needs.

Before you can get what you want, you have to think about what you need for yourself and for your family.

This can be a depressing task, but this is where the exciting part comes in. Because if you work hard, you can have what you want.

Yes, I said it. And I will say it again.

If you work hard, you can have whatever you want.

Now, understand that this method takes blood, sweat and tears. It takes hard work and an extremely determined mindset to accomplish anything you want.


Here are a few ways you can have what you want guilt-free. 

  1. Plan

Before you begin, you must have a plan in place. Draw a dream map from where you are now to what you want.

Take some time and make this as creative as possible. Find or draw pictures of what you want to attach to your dream map to keep you motivated.

When you have your motivational map ready, make a detailed plan to your path. Include any milestones you must meet as well as obstacles you will face.

It’s also important to know how your budget will change in the process. How much will your want cost?

      2. Budget

Preparing a budget for your want is so important. Because, how will you pay for something you don’t actually need?

Your needs come first and often times the needs take up the majority of a budget in no time. How will you have any left to pay for what you want?

The determination you have will determine how far you go to get what you want. I would suggest finding some part time income that works in your schedule to allow for extra money for your want.

3. Save 

When you establish your part time income, go ahead and start saving. There are numerous ways to save money and it all depends on how long you want your journey to last before you can get what you want.

You could open a savings account at a bank that incurs a little bit of interest to help your savings grow.

Or, you could simply save it at home in a safe place where you can accumulate it as you get paid.

Whatever you decide to do, I would suggest putting it somewhere safe and out of sight so you don’t be tempted to spend it. The more you save the quicker you move toward closer to achieving your want.

4. Determination

Once you have your plan, budget and savings plan, you can start working towards your goal. The road can be very long and bumpy and it could be easy to want to just quit. It’s only a want and not something you need.

If you want it, you can get it. If you’ve achieved the previous steps of planning, budgeting and saving, why are you going to quit now?

Getting what you want can be a hard road, but it’s such a blessing when you get to the end.

guilt free wanting


I look at what I have in my life and how I have gotten to where I am. I’ve gotten many things I’ve wanted, while still managing to have everything I need.

Balancing wants and needs is important for survival in life. You must have what you need first before you should get what you want.

You can have whatever you want. It takes lots of determination, planning and saving before you can have guilt free wanting.

[Tweet “The struggle is what makes wants seem so sweet in the end. “]

~ Much Love ~ 


Set Achievable Goals and Actually Meet Them Next Year | Farm Fit Living

Tuesday 5th of December 2017

[…] If you’re wanting to really set achievable goals this year and meet them, you’ll need to really focus. And follow the 10 steps I have listed for you that has helped me meet my goals time and time again. And it begins with the DESIRE. You gotta want it to win it!  […]

Become Frugal During Hard Times | Farm Fit Living

Tuesday 10th of October 2017

[…] do. But you have to stand your ground. You have to stay positive and not buy those things the kids want but don’t need. It’s definitely a life change but things will get […]

Comments are closed.